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Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>So my <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> feed is now filled with videos of people slapping cat butts and risking murder by tickling cat bellies. I have no regrets</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Cat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cat</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cats</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>Typical <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> cooking video</p><p>Creator: Puts together a well-shot video of a dish being made<br>Comments: Sister, do you have a link to the pot?</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedNote" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedNote</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>I find it fascinating that birds just come with engineering instructions. </p><p>Currently watching sunbirds build a nest at my balcony and I always wonder how they know how to do what they do</p><p>Ps: Realise that people thought this were the birds I am talking about lol. No, these are taken from xiaohongshu, and these are magpies.</p><p>The sunbirds in my apartment are here <a href="https://hachyderm.io/@liztai/114141713495884327" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">hachyderm.io/@liztai/114141713</span><span class="invisible">495884327</span></a></p><p>86 扶老奶奶闯红灯发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 s9Qw5NKxwz87BWG 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/M9RGSxn7IwF7,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/M9RGSxn7IwF7,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Birds" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Birds</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/BirdsOfFediverse" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>BirdsOfFediverse</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/XiaoHongShu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>XiaoHongShu</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedNote" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedNote</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>So some mat salleh posted a video and say Malaysia very boring. Just go swim in Klang Valley, sure life get exciting one 🐊</p><p>2 🌟 頌恩 🌟发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 GvVCwgbrLienc0c 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/QWYjKVCVD3d6,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/QWYjKVCVD3d6,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Malaysia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Malaysia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Xiaohongshu</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Crocodile" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Crocodile</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/KualaLumpur" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>KualaLumpur</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>So apparently KL is like Florida.</p><p>Spotted near KL Eco City (Mid valley Megamall) lol</p><p>I pun nak tengok </p><p>41 吃饭咯发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 eIIlg2IxhJRWXfD 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/7PsbPqrOP0d6,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/7PsbPqrOP0d6,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Malaysia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Malaysia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Buaya" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Buaya</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SouthEastAsia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SouthEastAsia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/TootSEA" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>TootSEA</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Crocs" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Crocs</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Xiaohongshu</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>I am mostly a self taught cook, though I know some Peranakan dishes. But I avoided cooking them especially for personal consumption because, have you tried cooking them? Bloody hell a dish that consumed in minutes take hours to do 😭. So in my family, our inherited Peranakan dishes are only done for special occasions like Chinese New Year.</p><p>I like simple dishes, so my cooking has evolved into a mesh of Chinese and Peranakan styles. I love veges, avoid too much oil and like using as little number of spices as possible. To my surprise a lot of people on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> cook the way I do and I got so many ideas from them. One similar trait we share is stir frying garlic with chill - and then adding meat or veges. It solves everything 😆</p><p>82 蜀中周三爷发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 AuNSCzOI8cXU7TA 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/DwsYlBP69NZ5,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/DwsYlBP69NZ5,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Chinese" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chinese</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Cooking" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cooking</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Food" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Food</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>Besides food, tv, travel and interior design bloggers, I follow talking cats on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> 😆<br>猫猫说: 现在来抓我。<br>Cat says: Catch me now!<br>Beh tahan so damn cute omg can I cubit??*</p><p>39 金山有毒吧发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 7t8l9mLZYOHUand 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/sOxoeIWWMrN5,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/sOxoeIWWMrN5,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p>* I know I know this is hard to translate because there's three languages in that sentence, typical Malaysian speak, but just know that I have cute aggression</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/cat" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>cat</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/catsofmastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>catsofmastodon</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cats</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>The best thing about <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Xiaohongshu</span></a> is that I can now get fed by authentic Chinese cooking videos. I am obsessed!</p><p>85 全能嘟妈All-round Du Ma.发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 9lBRIIJC1G9eoui 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/9tUxX3ySt9L5,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/9tUxX3ySt9L5,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>*Spits out drink*</p><p>You really can find all information on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a>, including farting cats</p><p>Source 77 🍬跳跳糖🍬发布了一篇小红书笔记,快来看吧! 😆 Ru0Tmt6OWjvhacO 😆 <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/xbQIXECk4Em5,复制本条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">xhslink.com/a/xbQIXECk4Em5,复制本</span><span class="invisible">条信息,打开【小红书】App查看精彩内容!</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Caturday" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Caturday</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Cats" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Cats</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Funny" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Funny</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>It's amazing how quickly my reading has improved just by reading <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> posts. The characters stick with you the more often you see them. Your brain recognizes the pattern repetitions and just engraves the character into your mind.</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/LanguageLearning" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LanguageLearning</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Mandarin" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mandarin</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Chinese" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Chinese</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/LearningChinese" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LearningChinese</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>How to Overcome Social Media Trauma Dumping | Psychology Today</p><p>Trauma dumping - I learned this new term thanks to, ironically, <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a></p><p>I feel like trauma dumping isn't a thing in Chinese social media. Not many people share their traumas, sadness, and fears on social media there. Being angry at something, yes, but sharing their sorrow and pain and personal problems? Not as big as English social media. "Face" is important to the Chinese after all.</p><p>When US folks started joining XHS in came the posts I was dreading. One US poster repeated "I am scared" over and over again. </p><p>I have a feeling Chinese folks don't know what to do about these posts and have been asking the Americans why they're doing this out of concern.</p><p>Then came Americans asking other Americans to stop "trauma dumping".</p><p>And that's how I learned about this term lol</p><p><a href="https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/positively-media/202109/how-overcome-social-media-trauma-dumping" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://www.</span><span class="ellipsis">psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/</span><span class="invisible">positively-media/202109/how-overcome-social-media-trauma-dumping</span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>The travel advisory to China from the Canadian govt is hilarious lol</p><p>Ps: This is one of my fav <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Xiaohongshu</span></a> follows btw. Highly recommend</p><p><a href="http://xhslink.com/a/GBbb5mDOBH14" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="">xhslink.com/a/GBbb5mDOBH14</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Canada" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Canada</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/China" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>China</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedNote" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedNote</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>Are Western social media platforms like <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/X" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>X</span></a>, <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Facebook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Facebook</span></a>, Instagram etc just meaner? Is Chinese social media like <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> better? Not really. But I can say one thing for sure: <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Mastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mastodon</span></a> remains my favourite social media.</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Blog" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Blog</span></a> </p><p><a href="http://elizabethtai.com/2025/01/31/how-i-use-social-media-and-why-mastodon-is-still-no-1-for-me/" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="ellipsis">elizabethtai.com/2025/01/31/ho</span><span class="invisible">w-i-use-social-media-and-why-mastodon-is-still-no-1-for-me/</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>I love this dorky trend of people dressing up like those Spring Festival gala dancing robots on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> 😆</p><p>Source: <a href="http://xhslink.com/a/GNfU3rO7CqR4" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">http://</span><span class="">xhslink.com/a/GNfU3rO7CqR4</span><span class="invisible"></span></a></p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/China" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>China</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>A few days ago I commented that the Chinese on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Xiaohongshu</span></a> are sensitive about <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/ChineseNewYear" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>ChineseNewYear</span></a> being called Lunar New Year. <br>I promised I will find the content explaining why.<br>Lunar calendar - Islamic calendar. Chinese calendar - lunarsolar.<br>Interestingly, President Obama may be the source of the Lunar New Year term. <br>I think due to the massive influence of English around the world this term started being used widely, which shows how culture can be influenced/misinterpreted like this. I think the Chinese are upset that someone can just come and rename their festival like this.<br>(fyi not every Chinese is offended by this btw. Generally Chinese in Malaysia don't seem as bothered, tho we call it CNY).</p><p><a href="https://youtu.be/sV8jfIsOgP8?si=4r9ZtyRoJTY_DV9u" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" translate="no" target="_blank"><span class="invisible">https://</span><span class="ellipsis">youtu.be/sV8jfIsOgP8?si=4r9Zty</span><span class="invisible">RoJTY_DV9u</span></a></p>
Paul Schoe<p>This is a really nicely written story about Little Red Book's sudden popularity with Americans.</p><p>It describes the origins of Little Red Book, and its surprising international orientation. </p><p>The article goes on to describe how ice-breakers like “Hello, I am a spy. Show me your cat” led to meaningful exchanges between Chinese and American users.</p><p><span class="h-card" translate="no"><a href="https://newsie.social/@TheConversationUS" class="u-url mention" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">@<span>TheConversationUS</span></a></span> <br><a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/LittleRedBook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>LittleRedBook</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/XiaoHongShu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>XiaoHongShu</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/China" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>China</span></a> <a href="https://mastodon.world/tags/Americans" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Americans</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>I love my Follow feed on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a>. Full of beauty and lovely people.<br>My fyp feed is still a shitshow tho. I don't know how many ignorant questions about China and Chinese people I can take 😆.<br>Yes I can exercise discipline and not engage but damn sometimes these questions are so stupid you gotta see how stupid it gets</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedNote" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedNote</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedBook" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedBook</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>With these questions on <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> I wonder how much longer the Chinese will remain patient 😅</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/China" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>China</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/US" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>US</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/SocialMedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>SocialMedia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/RedNote" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>RedNote</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Tiktokban" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Tiktokban</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>When Americans say people on Chinese social media are so nice 👇</p><p>Weibo exists ☠️</p><p><a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/socialmedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>socialmedia</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/china" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>china</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/weibo" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>weibo</span></a> <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a></p>
Elizabeth Tai | 戴秀铃 🇲🇾<p>Question to <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/Mastodon" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>Mastodon</span></a> folks. What is your theory about why people have gotten so mean on commercial <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/socialmedia" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>socialmedia</span></a> ?</p><p>My conversation with @ justincox@social.lol around his recent article (do read it, it's great) made me wonder about this. I think the migration to <a href="https://hachyderm.io/tags/xiaohongshu" class="mention hashtag" rel="nofollow noopener noreferrer" target="_blank">#<span>xiaohongshu</span></a> was eye opening to many because the environment there was more pleasant.</p><p>I personally think it's due to the high female demographic of xhs and also because of its strict moderation standards. It's like a strictly moderated subreddit with its own culture, and whose community actively helps the moderators moderate the tone of the app.</p><p>My theory based ony observation.</p>